A Hidden Danger For Women - Why Women Often Pick Losers For Mates

Many people don't know the dangers of the subconscious mind. The subconscious is actually a part of the mind that loves us and wants us to be safe. How the subconscious makes us safe oddly enough can place us in danger. The subconscious downloads our entire life (every millisecond of it) and looks for patterns in the download. Those patterns are catalogued and the most repetitive patterns become the behaviors we act out or seek in our lives. The most repetitive patterns are labelled as "safer" to participate in because a) they represent what's familiar and easier to navigate and b) they represent what's more frequent in the environment and therefore they represent what the majority is doing, thinking or saying. What the majority is doing, thinking or saying is always safer to mimic, emulate, mirror and copy.

 

Sounds like a pretty safe survival protocol for being well liked, doing what's already familiar and blending into the herd in order to avoid attack...…..but what about if you had a father who was absent, drunk, unhealthy, lazy, unmotivated and depressed? Well, this part of the mind (the subconscious) will seek out male partners who are absent, addicted, unhealthy, unmotivated and lazy. When people don't understand how their subconscious works and how the subconscious literally MANUFACTURES OUR BEHAVIORS AND BELIEFS, our lives don't get moving toward successful outcomes....ever.

 

Females will always seek out the familiar male, even if it makes them completely miserable.....up to and including finding male partners who are just like their Dad, even though they may have never admired their Dad whatsoever. This is the power of the subconscious, it wants everything to stay predictable and the same, even if seeking the predictable makes our life a complete disaster. The subconscious doesn't care about happiness, bliss or if you die a premature and painful death seeking out the familiar. The subconscious is our most basic safety seeking protocol and it only knows how to copy, mimic, emulate and mirror what's the most repetitive or familiar in our environment. Your happiness doesn't matter to the subconscious mind. But hold on, there is a solution.

 

I know one lady who's father passed away when she was young. He died in an alcohol related incident because he drank too much and that cost him his life. And sure enough, given the way the subconscious mind works, all she has ever dates are addicts. She can't bond properly with those addicts, so each one is quickly thrown to the curb in order to make way for the next addict. Not only is this lady mimicking the addict male programming downloaded into her subconscious when she was a child, she can't keep the addict in the house because the father was absent so long, she can't stand a man being in the house for too long either. If a good man comes along, she's not interested in him whatsoever because he's not a addict and she's doubly not interested because he's consistently in the house with her on a regular basis. Nothing about good men reminds her of her programmed and familiar pass, so she just keep running east looking for a sunset.

 

This lady constantly recreates her old house inside her new house, regarding the male figure, in terms of the male "not being there or available" and also the male "being an addict". It's a complete and utter disaster but she finds it soothing, comfortable and predictable...….and that's how the subconscious works. The subconscious represents a record in a jukebox. You'll always play the same record every single day unless you make a new record. Until this lady learns about the subconscious and how to reprogram it (by cutting herself a new record to play in her jukebox), she will constantly fall in love with addicts and then quickly dump them, simply because that's all she's ever known. Her subconscious is designed to make sure that what she knows is all she will ever know...…because it's safer to do what you know compared to trying something you don't know and not having a predictable script to navigate life by. Simple stuff. Do what you know, even if it makes you cry in the corner every single day. Sound familiar?

 

Now, the beautiful part of this part of the brain is the special computer code or programming language that can change what it seeks and what it acts out at any time. It's a simple code because it's a simple part of the mind to rewire but the people who are experts in subconscious brain function (the people who rule you) don't want the public knowing that they can change their lives at anytime. If you're looking to change in a permanent way and get some good things going in your life starting immediately, please click the link below. Learn to overcome your own self sabotage, teach others how to do the same, learn how to exercise, learn how to lead a healthy lifestyle and start your own business. It's all about a complete life makeover for you in 2024.